A Candid Talk about Young Adults and Cancer – Tuesday, June 11th

June 7th, 2013

June is Cancer Survivorship Month. Ever wonder what it’s like for a young  adult surviving a cancer diagnosis?

Join The Gathering Place and eFuneral for a screening of Golden Globe Nominated 50/50 – a film that takes a very honest and candid look at what happens when 27 year old Adam Lerner, played by Joseph Gordon-Levitt, is diagnosed with cancer. After the film, local young adult cancer survivors and Kathy Maxwell, LISW-S, facilitator for the Group for Young Adults with cancer at The Gathering Place, will lead a panel discussion about the impact of cancer on young adults, their family and friends.

Tuesday, June 11, 2013 from 6:00-8:30pm at the Lakewood Public Library

 

Race for the Place Another Big Success Thanks to You

June 3rd, 2013

Fun for all ages.Donna    Crowd walking.Donna

Thank you to everyone who came out to support The Gathering Place at our 13th Annual Race for the Place on Sunday, June 2nd. Over 4,200 people registered and helped us raise nearly $350,000! Thanks and gratitude to our presenting sponsor, University Hospitals Seidman Cancer Center, lead sponsors Anthem Blue Cross Blue Shield and Medical Mutual of Ohio.

Thank you to all of our supporting sponsors:
DDR. Corp.
The Sherwin Williams Company
Advance
Baker & Hostetler LLP
Beachwood Place
Blue Technologies
Caribou Coffee
Cleveland Clinic Foundation
Cleveland.com
Dave’s Supermarket
Elk & Elk Co., Ltd.
Excelas
Jeff Ivey Photography
Nature Stone
Pepsi
Pixelate Photography & Design
Progressive Benefits
Reminger Co., LPA
RPM
Smithfield Trust Company
StrollerMama
Sun News
Trader Joe’s
WKYC
Zinner & Co., LPA

A special shout out to MC Monica Robbins and
Honorary Cancer Survivor Chairperson Jim Donovan.

Congratulations to the overall cancer survivor race winners Larry Norton and Barbara Broad! Congratulations as well to the top male open winners Patrick Osborne, Henry Goodnough and Paul Krupa and the top female open winners Heather Conger, Amy Gannon and Judy Kaufmann. Click here for all race results.

People who create teams help make the race a huge success. Congratulations to the following teams:

Largest Corporate Team: Advance, Captain Joyce Newbacher, 123 people
Largest Community Team: Never Give Up Hope, Captain Teresa Stastny, 70 people
Largest School Team: Shaker Soles, Captain Tiffany Goldstein, 77 people
Largest Health & Wellness Team: Fully Functional Fitness, Captain Stephen Cerne,93 people
Largest New Team: Team Onaway, Captain Jim Sweeney, 64 people

Teams raising the most money:
Corporate Team: Advance, Captain Joyce Newbacher, over $9,700
Community Team: Id Perficiemus, Captain Thomas Cerny, almost $9,000
School Team: Team Onaway, Captain Jim Sweeney, $3,600
Health & Wellness Team: Fitness Revolution, Captain Nate Miracle, almost $5,000
New Team: Brigid’s Fight Club, Captain Brigid Burzanko, almost $7,200

Monica Robbins spoke at the race with our Board Chair Cheryl Davis and participants Teresa and Doug Stastny. Click here for Monica’s interviews.

For more great photos from Race for the Place 2013 click here.

Celebrating Our Caring Community

April 10th, 2013

 The Gathering Place is proud to be a part of a

generous and giving community in Northeast Ohio.

We are honored to receive donations and

funds that support our free programs

and services for those touched by cancer.

 

 Individual and Student Donors

We are thrilled to have the support of individuals in the community. This quarter, we were especially amazed by the students who took time to support The Gathering Place through fundraisers!

 

Ben Light and Eileen Saffran with Max and Karen Steiger at "Kaps for Karen".

Ben Light, Director of Operations, and Eileen Saffran, Executive Director, with Max and Karen Steiger at “Kaps for Karen”.

Kicking Cancer with Lily Steiger

Kaps for Karen with Max Steiger

ASAP student’s fundraiser with Strongsville Schools

Rachel George’s fundraiser at Albion Middle School

Hanna Light and Mallory Chylla’s Lemonade Stand

Roger and Brigid Burzanko’s fundraiser

Cassandra Davis Knitting Circle

Volunteers from the Child Life Specialist program at The University of Akron

 

Community and Corporate Donors

 Business and community donors make it possible for The Gathering Place to offer our services completely free of charge.  We cherish our community partners!

 

Beth Darmstadter with Christopher Noble at Norman-Noble.

Beth Darmstadter, Director of Development, with Dan Stefano, Vice President of Manufacturing at Norman Noble.

DaVita

Norman Noble

Community Shares Cleveland

Downtown Willoughby Thinks Pink

AT&T  Pioneers

 Laurello Vineyards and the Grand River Valley Ice Wine Festival

Giant Eagle in Westlake

Howard, Wershbale & Co

Nature Stone

Vanity Lab

The Rock Pile

Sports Time Ohio

Chico’s

Cell Phones for Cancer

 

We love sharing pictures of members of our community who support The Gathering Place.  If you have any photos of fundraisers for The Gathering Place that you would like to share, you can send them to orlowski@touchedbycancer.org.  We may be able to include them in posts like this!

Birthdays & Cancer

April 4th, 2013

I can hardly believe that the month of April is already upon us!  This seems to be a statement that I make every year considering April is the month that holds my birthday.  When celebrating the promise of the New Year in January, it feels like April will never come.  But, before I know it, the first day of spring arrives in March and my birthday is just around the corner on the fourth of April.

On my special day, I cannot help but take a few moments to think about birthdays and the cancer journey.  For some, a birthday is a day to celebrate the distance we have traveled since the word cancer entered our lives.  For others, a birthday is a day to remember and honor the life of a person who passed away.  And, to others, a birthday may be just another day in the year.

Regardless of your feelings about birthdays now that cancer is a part of your life, I hope you are in a place where you are able to embrace your feelings and acknowledge that they may or may not change.  We are all different in the ways that we choose to recognize milestones in our lives.  Some people love celebrating and others do not.  I encourage you to do what feels right for you in the moment as sometimes that is the best that we can do.

The way that I spend my birthday has remained consistent throughout the years.  Whether it is the actual day or the week of my birthday (yes, sometimes I celebrate for an entire week), I have always spent the time surrounded in love of family and friends.  My personal perspective is that birthdays are a time to celebrate life.  I choose to do this every year with those who mean the most to me.

The meaning of birthdays and my feelings around them have changed over the years.  As I get older, I have found that my feelings of gratefulness and peace within myself grow as each birthday arrives.  As my life becomes more beautiful with my career, relationships and opportunities, I feel blessed that I am given the chance on my birthday to celebrate past experiences and look forward to the bright year ahead of me.  Progressing into young adulthood as a cancer survivor has given me many gifts; a few of them being the ability to recognize that birthdays are special and that it is important to me to take time to celebrate how far I have come on my journey.

How has the cancer journey impacted your perspective on birthdays?

 

 

Amy ChmielewskiAmy Chmielewski, MSSA, MA, LSW, is an oncology social worker at University Hospitals Seidman Cancer Center. Amy’s cancer experience has inspired her career of supporting individuals and families on their own cancer journey.  Amy is currently in her eighth year of survivorship from Hodgkin’s Lymphoma.  She is also greatly involved in the cancer community.  Amy is a volunteer in the children’s program at The Gathering Place and serves on the Patient Services Committee for The Leukemia and Lymphoma Society (LLS) Northern Ohio Chapter.  Amy’s awards include the LLS Patient Services Hope Award and Dean’s Award for Outstanding Student Achievement from the Mandel School of Applied Social Sciences. Amy is a graduate of Case Western Reserve University, where she earned two master’s degrees in social work and bioethics.  Amy is published in Chicken Soup for the Soul: The Cancer Book.  She enjoys writing and speaking in the cancer community to raise awareness about young adults with cancer. 

 

Road construction impacting traffic near our location in Westlake

March 28th, 2013

Road construction has begun on the bridge deck on Detroit Road at Sperry Creek, located just west of University Hospitals on Detroit. The project will be going on through October. Traffic will be reduced to one lane, controlled by a temporary traffic signal. There may be delays on Clague and Detroit Roads.

In order to avoid  the delays consider accessing Detroit from Columbia Road.

If you’re coming to TGP West from I-90 East take the Columbia Road exit South, instead of Clague Road, and turn left onto Detroit.

Hopefully this ‘heads up’ will help to cut down on some of the frustration that these necessary repairs will cause drivers.

 

The wisdom of words…

March 26th, 2013

Breakfast with BuddhaAt The Gathering Place we believe that there isn’t just one way to support an individual during the cancer journey. We offer support groups, counseling, art therapy and many other services including the periodic opportunity to read an enlightening book and discuss it with others on the cancer journey.

On Friday, March 22nd a group of our participants discussed Breakfast with Buddha by Roland Merullo. The discussion was led by program staff members, Betsy Kohn and Eileen Coan. Our participants received the added bonus of being able to talk with the author, Roland Merullo, who participated via conference call from his home in Massachusetts.

Breakfast with Buddha is a work of fiction about a man who unwittingly finds what he’s missing in the most unexpected place. Mr. Merullo shared that he drew on life experiences to create the story. While talking with participants in the book discussion group he shared about spiritual practices, plot development (he lets the characters of the story determine the direction and lead him on a journey) and traveling with his children. Our participants were able to share with him how much this book meant to them.

Several of our participants found that the book was life-changing as it helped them to gain spiritual awareness, as well as recognize that they can find humor, even when faced with the challenges life brings (being diagnosed with cancer, caring for someone diagnosed with cancer, or having a loved one die from cancer). Just as the two main characters in the book, Otto and the Buddha (Rimpoche), learn about each other as they travel the United States, our participants expressed the cancer experience has taken them to unexpected places which they are learning to navigate with a greater sense of peace and comfort.

The next discussion takes place in June and the book is One Good Deed: 365 Days of Trying to Be Just a Little Bit Better. Perhaps you’ll join Betsy and Eileen as they focus on the positive effects of reaching outside of ourselves even in the face of a cancer diagnosis. They will invite the author, Erin McHugh, to join the discussion. Keep your fingers crossed.

Click here   to register for the Beachwood book discussion – Friday, June 14th, 1:00-2:00pm

Click here   to register for the Westlake book discussion – Thursday, June 27th, 1:00-2:00pm

 

Eileen Coan, Medical LibrarianEileen Coan, MA, MLS, Medical Librarian
After a decade in the nonprofit mental health field, Eileen obtained a degree in Library Science to address the need for relevant, credible information for people in crisis. She started the first consumer health cancer library in Cleveland at Fairview Hospital’s Moll Center and has been with The Gathering Place since it opened in 2000. Eileen works to overcome the stereotypes of librarians! She also teaches guided imagery, journaling, and craft activities at The Gathering Place and has a special interest in bioethics. Contact Eileen at coan@touchedbycancer.org

 

Betsy Kohn, The Gathering PlaceBetsy Kohn, MS, PC, Director of Volunteers/Program Staff Member
Betsy brings to The Gathering Place many years of experience in coordination and supervisory roles. She came to The Gathering Place to use her organizational skills and positive, supportive communication to assist volunteers in finding their place as part of our community. Betsy is also a member of the clinical program staff and facilitates support groups and workshops, as well as provides individual counseling. Contact Betsy at kohn@touchedbycancer.org

Laurello Vineyards Supports The Gathering Place

February 12th, 2013

Visit the 10th Annual Grand River Valley Ice Wine festival to sample local wines and support The Gathering Place!  Laurello Vineyards and other Grand River Valley vineyards are hosting a progressive tasting of the ice wine produced in the Grand River Valley.  The event will be held on March 2, 9 and 16 from noon to 5pm.  Each winery will provide a sample of their ice wines along with a complimentary appetizer. The Laurello appetizer is a savory caramelized onion and bacon crostini topped with thyme goat cheese mousse!

While you’re at Laurello Vineyards, be sure to stop by The Gathering Place table where Laurello will be supporting The Gathering Place by selling “Wine for the Cure” t-shirts!

The ticket cost is $6 per person at each winery, which includes an Ice Wine cordial glass, wine samples, an appetizer and special events. Bring in a canned food item and receive $1 off to help support local food banks.  Other participating wineries include Ferrante Winery, Debonné Vineyards and Grand River Cellars & St. Joseph Vineyards.

Ringing in the New Year…

December 31st, 2012

As we get ready to say goodbye to 2012, I cannot help but think about the cancer journey and resolutions for the New Year. In reflecting on my life since I was diagnosed with cancer, I realize that my New Year’s resolutions have changed over the years to become more realistic and meaningful. I found that having cancer as a part of my life has held me to a higher standard of honoring resolutions, while also being patient with myself in doing so. For example, I no longer give up on resolutions just because they have not been accomplished by the end of January. I learned the valuable lesson at a young age that time is limited and moves incredibly quickly. As a result, I strive to be kind to myself while working hard to achieve my resolutions by doing the best that I can with each new day.

Instead of making the typical resolutions for weight loss, getting out of debt or finally putting an end to procrastination, my resolutions are now focused on living a healthier lifestyle, being an admirable person, working hard, living in the moment and allowing myself to splurge every now and then! Cancer motivates me to live a life for which I am proud. I am less focused on beating myself up over losing 5 pounds instead of 10. I am more focused on eating healthier foods and exercising while allowing myself to occasionally splurge on dessert! I am less focused on pettiness and hurting others that have hurt me. I am focused on being good to those who are good to me. I try to be a person that is thoughtful, caring and genuine on a daily basis. I am focused on living in the moment and spending meaningful time with people in my life. I tell those around me how I feel about them instead of keeping everything inside. Cancer has changed my life for the better. I am confident that as I grow and welcome more “New Years” into my life, I will continue to learn from cancer as my experience always lives in me.

For those who know me, whether it is in person or through this blog, I have grown a lot in 2012. I look forward to the blessings that 2013 will bring! I also look forward to sharing more writings with you and express my genuine thanks for reading!

Happy New Year!

Please share how your resolutions changed since cancer touched your life…

 

Amy Chmielewski, MSSA, MA, LSW, is an oncology social worker at The Cleveland Clinic. Amy is a graduate of Case Western Reserve University, where she earned two master’s degrees in social work and bioethics. Her cancer experience has inspired her career of supporting individuals and families on their own cancer journey. Amy is currently in her eighth year of survivorship from Hodgkin’s Lymphoma. Amy is a volunteer in the children’s program at The Gathering Place and serves on the Patient Services Committee for The Leukemia and Lymphoma Society (LLS) Northern Ohio Chapter. Amy’s awards include the LLS Patient Services Hope Award and Dean’s Award for Outstanding Student Achievement from the Mandel School of Applied Social Sciences. Amy is published in Chicken Soup for the Soul: The Cancer Book. She enjoys writing and speaking in the cancer community to raise awareness about young adults with cancer.

Living life to the fullest: A message from the Executive Director

December 17th, 2012

As we look towards a new year, I’m reminded of two dynamic yet quiet women who were active participants in our caring community prior to their deaths this year. Fran Butler and Gwen Goss epitomized one of the rationales behind the founding of The Gathering Place. At that time, I hoped that our organization might play a positive role in helping people LIVE their lives to the fullest while confronting the challenges of a cancer diagnosis. Both Fran and Gwen faced the realities of their difficult diagnoses with both an acceptance of and adherence to the traditional medical regimens as well as an “I’m not going to let this control what I want to do in life” attitude.

I met Fran during The Gathering Place’s first dragon boat racing foray. I had the pleasure of getting to know Fran during the course of our strenuous practices and then competitive race day. I remember learning that she would schedule her chemotherapy in order to miss as few practices as possible. Fran went on to participate in our next two years of dragon boating, however was too frail to be an active part of our competition this year. Her team, however, welcomed her participation in their final practice even when it was clear that her death was eminent. Never, in the three years of dragon boating, would Fran allow anyone to give her a “pass” for not giving it her all. She was “all in” and encouraged all team members to participate to their fullest.

Gwen’s extracurricular activities included ultra-running. This form of running is defined by long distance events. I don’t mean the “simple” marathon distance; rather the 100 milers.  I learned that Gwen had recently run the Burning River 100 mile Endurance Race, however was disqualified based on taking too much time to reach the 70 mile mark. Gwen’s disqualification was particularly disappointing as she had  just completed a round of intense chemotherapy the same week as the run. Instead of taking pride in completing almost ¾ of the race feeling the negative effects of her chemo treatments, she lamented her inability to finish what she set out to do…cancer or no cancer.

The bottom line is that neither Fran nor Gwen allowed cancer to define their lives. Yes, they couldn’t deny many of the negative realities of their diagnosis including a probable shortened life span, however they defined cancer survivorship in a way that taught many of us who crossed their path a lesson. As The Gathering Place enters our 13th year, I know that we will have the opportunity to meet more Fran and Gwens who have the courage to walk through our door. Against all odds, they too will teach and inspire us to live life to the fullest for as long as we have a chance to do so.

 

Eileen Saffran is the founder and executive director of The Gathering Place. Click here to read more about her.

Gratitude for going above and beyond

November 21st, 2012

It’s hard to remember a time when Jerry Cahn wasn’t a part of the fabric of our organization. We’d probably have to go back through our records to find the date of the first time he brought a participant to The Gathering Place in his taxi. For a number of years, we have provided taxi service for participants who otherwise would not be able to get to The Gathering Place. Funding for this service has been provided by a number of foundations. We are so very grateful for the financial support we receive for this program, but today’s story is about the taxi driver Jerry Cahn.

Jerry does more than just drive the AmeriCab taxi that makes several trips  each week bringing participants and their families for programs and services. He remembers the names of all his passengers and their stories. He helps them in and out of the taxi and knows when not to help those that would rather do it themselves. Everyone who uses the taxi service always has kind words to share about Jerry because of how important he makes each participant feel. It’s as if he is their very own personal driver.

Once we had a participant who didn’t show up at the door of the apartment building for a scheduled pick up. Jerry called The Gathering Place to ask if she’d cancelled. She had not. Jerry had been bringing this participant to TGP for some time and knew it wasn’t like her to not show up. He also knew that she hadn’t been feeling well and she lived alone. So Jerry went back to the apartment building and talked to the super who called the apartment. When the super didn’t get an answer he went up to the apartment and knocked on the door. Our participant called out that she had fallen and needed assistance getting up.

Jerry’s job is to drive people back and forth between two destinations but what he does is help to make a difference in the lives of our participants. We are grateful that he goes above and beyond and that we can count him as a part of our caring community. Thank you Jerry!!